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Sketch of the Life Of Martha Vera Mecham Ogden

Written by her husband Joseph Hyrum Ogden

Typewritten by their daughter Fern Ogden Anderson

February 1950

She was born in Littleton, Morgan Co. Utah, in the home of her grandparents, 2 Oct. 1886, and was the oldest of seven children.

She was born of goodly parents and was the grand-daughter of sturdy pioneers, and was taught from her infancy to have faith in her Heavenly Father, to honor and obey the principles of the Gospel, to seek after knowledge, to love virtue, to be honest, truthful and trustworthy. She was an obedient and dutiful daughter, and being the oldest child in the family she was a great deal of help to her parents.

Vera entered school when eight years old, her school days were happy ones and she had a great deal of respect for most of her teachers.

She was baptized 23 July 1896, by Elder Wm. Spendlove; was confirmed 24 July 1896 by Elder Frank A Little. She held several positions in the Church in her younger life. She was a teacher in the Kindergarten and Primary department in the Milton Ward Sunday School eight years; work which she thoroughly enjoyed; She was Assist. Sec. then Sec. of the Primary Asso. She was Assist. Sec. then Secretary, then first counselor in the Young Ladies Mutual Asso; was President of the Y.L.M.I.A. two years, was then chosen as Stake Aid in the same organization. Was Supt, of the Religion Class two years.

For six years she worked out for other people, and was well respected wherever she went. At the age of twenty one she entered into my employ; I having lost my dear wife, and being left with seven little girls to care for; also a large farm to look after, and seeing in her a noble character, and one very desirable to care for those children, she was chosen for this noble work. Through her gentle thoughtfulness and kind services she endeared herself to me, and after being in my employ for some time, we were married. We were sealed in the Salt Lake Temple 4 Nov. 1908, by Elder John R Winder. She has always been thankful to her Heavenly Father for such a noble companion,

The calling in life that she chose to follow was a noble one, the one that was given to woman in the beginning by her Heavenly Father; the calling of wife and mother; the highest calling a woman can have; there is none greater, there is none happier and she set her aim high. It has always been the greatest desire of her heart to become an ideal wife and mother; an ideal homemaker; she often has said how near she has reached the goal she could not say, but she has tried in her weak and humble way.

She tried to be a mother to those little girls the way she would have liked her children to have been taken care of had they been left motherless. Often times have I told her had their own mother lived they could not have had better care and teachings, with the help of the Lord and a kind loving wife and mother we have raised those children to beautiful womanhood. They in return have treated her with as much respect as they could ever have shown their mother, and she loves every one of them as her very own.

After our marriage eleven children were born to us, six sons and five daughters; they were;-Joseph Lester, Martha Ruth; William Pascoe; Jesse Rich, (died when 17 years old); Edward LeRoy; Rachel Grace; Raymond Grant; Baby Ogden (a daughter, died at birth); Daniel Howard; Beth Eva; Fern.

Vera was thrifty and industrious,all the children's clothing and her own were made by her own hands. She canned fruit and vegetables in the summer months to feed the family in winter, sometimes bottling as much as a thousand quarts in a season. She has also enjoyed sewing for her grandchildren.

Our family has been a remarkable one, one of the unusual kind, we have never heard the word step-mother or half brother and sister used in our family. We were sealed in the Temple and felt we were all one family and have taught our children the same. Living in this kind of a family spirit we have been able to raise a large, respectable, and loving family.

Vera has always been a lover of children, and has spent some of the happiest hours of her life teaching and caring for them. She always felt that "Our richest of treasures are our children".

For nearly forty two years we have walked side by side, working and planning unitedly, lovingly, and happily together. -We have been- real pals. We have been greatly blessed by the Lord, we have been able at all times to provide our family with a comfortable home and a good living, also been able to help each child financially when they were married. We sent our daughter Nellie on a mission to the North Central States for two years, she being the first lady missionary to leave the Slaterville Ward for a mission.

She has seen the power of the Priesthood make manifest many times in her life; she has seen the sick healed, has had her testimony strengthened by unusual answers to her prayers. She saw her husband made well when he suffered from a severe heart attack, through the administrations of the Elders and prayers of his loved ones, she knows if we keep our lives in tune, the Lord is ever ready to bless us.

Sorrow also has come into our lives; our oldest daughter Esther Elizabeth died when she was twenty five years old; our baby girl died at birth; our third son Jesse Rich died at the age of seventeen years; our second daughter Annie Hazel died at the age of 45 years, leaving four children;- but through it all we feel to say, "The, Lord knows best, His will be done."

We received our Patriarchal blessings 28 Sent 1930, by Patriarch Levi J. Taylor, from which we have received a great deal of comfort.

Vera was a member of the Roy Ward Genealogical Society for five years. She enjoys this work very much. She keeps our genealogical record

up to date, she had made a family history book of our families, collecting all the pictures she can and arranging them attractive in the history book, she has written history of the lives of all our children, our grandparents as far back as she has been able to find a history. It is a very interesting and fascinating work to her.

She also enjoys the work, in the Temple for our kindred dead. She has dept a daily diary of her husband and family since 1911, and how we enjoy reading over those records.

One of her ambitious has been to gather all the very best poems, short stories, essays and readings, also the best pictures she could find, arranging them attractively in books and placing them where the family could read them at any time hoping it would help guide their footsteps in the right path, for she knows that good books help form good characters. They are the kind of readings she likes best, and expresses her thoughts in a better way than she could,

We have not been successful in gathering great wealth; we have not brought as much into our home as we should have liked, but we have devoted our every effort of our lives to the end that our sons and daughters who go from our home, shall with God's blessings, be worthy citizens and faithful Latter-Day-Saints.

She has been a visiting Relief Society Teacher in the Ogden 14th for eight years.